There’s a connection between how we feel about ourselves and what happens to us. Both inspire each other. It’s about frequencies. Like attracts like.
If you aren’t OK with the situation, don’t attack the situation. Focus inside. There’s something within you. Some disintegration. An anomaly. It’s in your current self-image. You aren’t OK with yourself. There’s a tiny crack. No, not just now; not just because the situation isn’t OK. You were not-OK even before it showed up. It’s the twin that attracted the situation to you. Of course, you were unconscious of it. If you attack the situation, your reaction will be laced with this anomaly. It won’t solve the problem. It’ll only add to it.
Be calm. Take a deep breath. Have an affirmation: “I’m strong.” Replace unconsciousness with awareness. Consciously make a choice: “I’m integrating myself.” Feel it. Feel you, making your peace with yourself. Know that peace is an independent choice. Unrest is relevant to what’s happening outside; but peace isn’t bound to it. Peace can exist on its own. If we let it. And it can manifest its twin in outside situation. Stop advocating how natural it is to feel not-OK. It’s useless. Focus on solving the problem outside by being different within. Remember, you’re in control here. You command what happens to you.
© Counselor Apoorva
Psychologist
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