• “Is it wrong to want appreciation?”
• “No. It’s a natural desire.”
• “Then why do you warn me about it?”
• “Check the measure of validation in
  appreciation.”
• “What’s the difference between the two?”
• “Appreciation is note of WHAT you are.
  Validation is note of WHO you are.
  Appreciation is for your performance.
  Validation is for your existence.
  Remember,
  your mind must not exist by others’ support.
  You must exist on your own; with self faith.
  You must love yourself unconditionally.
  You must respect and validate who you are.
  Only then,
  what you do will be a natural expression.
  It’ll be pure, true; and hence appreciable.
  If you exist only by validation from others,
  you’re a puppet in their hands;
  your doom is certain.”

© Counselor Apoorva
Psychologist

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